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Saturday, February 19, 2011
BGR
@ 9:56 PM
BGR = BOY-GIRL RELATIONSHIP
I've never been in one before but i almost got into one very long ago under peer pressure and curiosity.
It seemed fun to be in one i guess as it gives a feeling that you can't describe exactly.
Something like you're wanted by someone and you feel needed.
When you like someone, of course you would want that someone to like you back as well.
When the two are comfortable to be with each other and are okay to share the news with their friends, they're in a relationship.
Since i've never experience being in a relationship,
I can't tell you how it would be like but using my imagination,
I believed it feels GREAT!
I asked a few of my friends whose in a BGR about:
Will it affect your studies while being in a BGR?
Their answers were mostly a NO.
I agree with them to an extend but more toward what Parents and Teachers said, that it will affect your studies.
It will only not affect them if the relationship is stable.
Meaning, the two will not get into fights about small matters and are not likely to break so easily or there's no problem at all in any sorts.
They will encourage each other to study or in fact they will study together and that's totally fine!
But if it's twisted, the relationship of the two is bad, getting into quarrels,cold shoulders or any other ways of showing unstableness in the relationship, it will most probably affect their studies in one way or another.
They might think about things related to their relationship most of the time and will neglect their school works etc...
I mean i don't know if this is how it would be but using my common sense i think it would be like that...
If it's otherwise please do notify me :)
I will not get into a BGR unless it's really necessary.
Yeah, so that's about it for this post and more pictures below :D
GOOD NIGHT!
Hazel Hope Tan. 
21 yrs old 
8 March 1995 
