Hi july, and everybody reading this post.
Today I'm just going talk about give and take.

How great is it to always have someone by your side when you need them, provide you with their helping hands as well as their encouraging words...
But sometimes you may take them for granted and think that they ARE supposed to treat you well.
Give you everything you WANT and not necessarily NEED.
After that you will just keep expecting more and more from them till one day they stop doing that and you complain that they changed and are no longer your friend because of that.

Sometimes, being too nice may not be a good thing in the long run because people will just expect more from you.  In chinese, we call it 得寸进尺. And most of the time, they treat you like a fool and eventually forget that you have feelings too. That's just how I feel sometimes.

If you have the ability to do something or get something yourself...do it YOURSELF.
Don't even bother to ask for help just because you're lazy or just 贪小便宜.
It reflects badly on you seriously.
You can argue that having discounts is better than buying something at its original price.
But at least use your own freaking member card.
I mean you can use your friend's card but provided it doesn't affect their credits in the card...
How do I put it.
For example, you shouldn't use your friend's card if the discount is given by deducting the points accumulated in the member card because those points are earned through your friend's purchases which also equals to money. If it doesn't affect the number of points in the card and in fact add more points through the usage of the member card then go ahead. Your friend will be more than happy to lend you their member card.
This is what I called GIVE and TAKE.

I'm talking about this because I've got this friend of mine who always ask people for favours and/or use their friend's member card to get things at cheaper price. I mean it's okay to do that once in a while. But I feel that this friend really went overboard and I cannot stand it.
Maybe it's just me but it just gets on my nerves when I see people like this.
Not only that, there's no 'Thankyous' or any form of appreciation.
Even when there is, there's just many reluctance in their actions and you just feel that they are not sincere.
Furthermore, their pay much is higher than you WTF.

Don't get me started on thier comments that can stab your heart till it turns bloody.
Big sigh.
Wish you luck if you have friends like this because you need it.
Peace.